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Circumstances Where Parents Become Dependents

On behalf of The Law Office of Wickersham and Bowers posted in Estate Planning on Monday July 12th, 2021.

Are you caring for your parent? Many adults in midlife are sandwiched between caring for teenagers and aging parents as well. Although no one wants to think there will ever be a time they will need to care for a parent, it happens far too often. If you are concerned about caring for one or both of your parents, here is some information you need to know about caring for aging parents. 

Aging Parent Dependents

There are several circumstances that would make an aging parent become a dependent. First, your parent may begin to rely on you for their income, because they do not have enough money saved up, or they have spent all the money they had saved for retirement. If you are contributing more than half of your parent’s income, you can claim them as a dependent. 

You may also be able to claim your parent as a dependent if they are no longer capable of making decisions themselves. For example, you may be named a guardian for your parent if they are diagnosed with a progressive neurological disease, such as Parkinson’s disease or dementia. Some diseases will render your parent unable to care for themselves, and you’ll need to step in. Your parent may also be mentally ill with a disease or disorder, such as bipolar disorder or schizophrenia. 

There are other events that may make your parents dependent on you. If your parents is suffering from the effects of a physical problem or injury, they may need your help. For example, your parent may have had an automobile accident, or they may have suffered a stroke. The lingering effects may mean you have to care for them. If you are concerned about your parents ability to care for themselves, there are some things you can do. First, if your concern for them is new, you may want to take them to the doctor to allow a medical professional to determine whether they are declining. Second, make a note of your parents ability to care for their daily needs. It may be that all they need is a little help during the day, such as a reminder to take medicine. You can hire people to check in on your parents. Still concerned about your aging parents? You may need to consult with their doctor and your attorney to make sure you and your parents are living the best life possible. 

Can You Get a Divorce if Your Spouse Just Up and Left?

On behalf of The Law Office of Wickersham and Bowers posted in Family Law on Monday June 14th, 2021.

Can You Get a Divorce if Your Spouse Just Up and Left?

When one spouse walks out on another, severs all ties, does not take care of their share of financial obligations, and has no intention of returning, this is called marital abandonment, or desertion. Abandonment is quite different from a separation, which occurs when a married couple agrees to separate, either temporarily or permanently. Separation is not abandonment unless the spouse that leaves refuses to provide support or take care of financial obligations without cause. In some states with fault-based divorce, this is known as “willful desertion,” and comes in two types.

Criminal Abandonment

Criminal abandonment occurs when one spouse no longer provides for the care, support, and protection of the other spouse who has health problems, or a minor child, without “just cause.” As an example, if your spouse came down with a terminal disease and you did not feel you could continue to take care of them, the court will not accept this position as grounds for divorce.

Constructive Abandonment

When one spouse makes it intolerable for their spouse to stay, the person leaving can claim constructive abandonment. Being abusive, having a chronic addiction, or adultery could be used as a claim for constructive abandonment.

Claiming Abandonment

Before you can claim abandonment as grounds for divorce, you have to make sure your state allows abandonment as grounds. Some strictly no-fault states will not allow you to use abandonment as a legal tool.

To use abandonment as grounds for divorce, you will have to prove to the court that abandonment really took place. You will need to prove, as the plaintiff, that the defendant left your home and has failed to meet their financial obligations for the required period of time in your state. You must also prove there was no just cause for your spouse to leave, for things like abuse, addiction, or adultery.

If you feel you may have been abandoned by your spouse, or if you aren’t sure and would like to talk to someone to clarify your situation, contact the Law Office of Wickersham & Bowers. Schedule an appointment with one of our attorneys today.

Who in the Family Could Possibly Challenge Your Will?

On behalf of The Law Office of Wickersham and Bowers posted in Estate Planning on Monday June 14th, 2021.

The number of people who can contest a will is limited. Only someone who would be personally and financially affected by the terms of a will may bring a lawsuit to challenge the will’s validity. Someone in this position is considered to have “standing” by the courts. With this in mind, how does someone stand to contest a will?

Possible Heirs That Were Disinherited

Someone so closely related to the person who passed that they would have received a portion of that person’s estate if they did not have a will is known as an “heir-at-law.” Heirs-at-law are usually considered to have standing to challenge a will.

Beneficiaries Mentioned In A Prior Will

If a person (or an entity) was named in a previous, older will, this would provide sufficient standing to contest the newer will if it removes them from the document. They would also have standing if their share of the estate was smaller in the newer will. In the same way, if an executor of the estate was in the older will but removed in a subsequent will, that person will likely have standing to contest the newer will.

In each case above, each person listed would still have to demonstrate the will in question is for some reason invalid.

Who Cannot Contest A Will?

If you are not a beneficiary in a previous will, or not an heir-at-law, you are unlikely to have legal standing to challenge a will. This applies even if you believe the will is not valid. Minors are another group that usually cannot have standing to contest a will. In most states, however, a parent or guardian is permitted to challenge a will on a child’s behalf.

What Should You Do?

Contesting a will is complex series of laws. If you are considering contesting a will, your first step should be to consult a lawyer that specializes in these kinds of probate matters to see if you may have grounds. Contact the Law Office of Wickersham & Bowers to set up an appointment with one of our experienced lawyers.

Tips for Avoiding Probate

On behalf of The Law Office of Wickersham and Bowers posted in Estate Planning on Wednesday May 12, 2021.

Avoiding probate, the legal process of resolving the estate of a deceased person, and distributing that person’s property to beneficiaries, can save money, accelerate the passing on of assets, and protect a family’s privacy. The two major grounds to avoid probate relate to both the time and to the financial resources typically needed to complete the process. Since probate involves the court system, it requires a variety of time-consuming proceedings and hearings that may take months or sometimes years to complete. Meanwhile, the heirs see no inheritance. Besides the slow administration process are the costs related to settling an estate through probate court. The court reduces part of the estate’s value through probate fees, and if an attorney is involved, even more costs are accrued, thus further cutting into the inheritance.

Another rationale for why you want to avoid probate is to keep one’s financial affairs confidential. Probate proceedings enter public record. This means anyone can get the information on how the estate was allocated. This includes the value and the name of the recipient.

Creating a Living Trust is the Easiest Solution

For these reasons, avoiding probate is often the best course of action. The only realistic way for that to happen is to allocate your assets straight to your loved ones. This can be achieved in several ways, but in most instances, the simplest is by creating what is known as a living trust.

When you create a living trust, the writers or grantors of the trusts fund them by placing assets they select into them. They then keep control of those assets until they pass. The grantors also select a person to be the trustee, distributing the property within the trust, based on the grantor’s directions after that person’s passing. When you have a living trust, the whole process occurs without having to engage probate law or turn to the probate court.

Other Methods You Can Use to Avoid Probate

Besides creating a living trust, there are several other ways that you can avoid probate, such as:

  • Joint ownership of property so that one owner gets full possession after the death of the other;
  • Including beneficiaries on every insurance or retirement account to whom benefits will go after someone passes; and
  • Assigning recipients for TOD or POD accounts. TOD stands for transfer-on-death, while POD stands for pay-on-death. 

A Closing Note to Avoid Probate

Make sure you recognize that there are some states in the US have probate procedures for estates that are below specific value. Some states probate laws are easier, shorter, or simply different than this overview. Therefore, whether you should try to avoid probate is relative to the situation in your area.

The Implications of the Gates’ Divorce Since There Was No Prenup

On behalf of The Law Office of Wickersham and Bowers posted in Family Law on Wednesday May 12, 2021.

The recent announcement by billionaire couple Bill and Melinda Gates that they were divorcing after 27 years of marriage caught the world’s attention, as did the fact that they have no prenuptial agreement (prenup) but instead have a “separation contract” that specifies how their property will be split up when they separate. A prenup would have been agreed upon before the couple’s marriage, and would have spelled out how exactly their property would be divided in the event of a legal separation or a divorce. In contrast, a separation contract is part of a divorce proceeding because a divorce demands that a couple separate their property. In their divorce petition, the couple requested that their personal property, real property, and debts be divided based on the terms of their separation contract, which is a confidential document. 

Washington’s Community Property Law could apply to the Gates Divorce

Certain states such as Louisiana, Arizona, Texas, California, and Washington, where the couple lives, have laws stating that all assets obtained during a marriage that were not given as gifts or are part of an inheritance are considered to be “community property.” And, when a prenup is not created, community property should be divided equally (50/50) between the partners when a divorce occurs. Thus, the standard community property law of the State of Washington regarding equitable distribution may be applicable in the Gates case. All premarital assets will be exempt from equal distribution as long as it can be established that they were personally owned before the divorce was initiated. 

Community versus Separate Property

In states that recognize community property, such as Washington, marital property is equally owned by both spouses. Such property includes income, any property that was purchased with this income, and all debts that were accumulated throughout the course of their marriage. The laws regarding community property begin with the start of a marriage, and they end when the couple becomes physically separated and has the goal of discontinuing the marriage. Thus, any income or debts created afterwards will be deemed separate property that is owned only by the original owner. 

 Deciding how to divide assets usually involves the following steps:

  1. All assets and debts are classified as being either community or separate property
  2. Each asset is assigned a value through an expert appraisal or by the couple’s agreement
  3. The assets and debts are divided evenly between the spouses. 

A spouse is not permitted to move, modify, or get rid of any portion of community property without the other’s consent, but can manage his or her own half. However, the whole includes the other spouse’s half interest; that is, a spouse cannot be separated from the half of the property that belongs to them. Moreover, Washington state law stipulates that the court’s division of the divorcing couple’s property be “just and equitable.”

How Should Parents Go About Picking a Guardian for Their Children?

On behalf of The Law Office of Wickersham and Bowers posted in Estate Planning on Monday April 12, 2021.

Have you written a will? If so, have you thought about your wishes for your children? Planning your estate is important, but your children’s long-term welfare should be your top priority. For this reason, your will should include the names of legal guardians you feel could best care for your children if you became incapacitated, passed away, or were otherwise unable to provide for them. Before you decide on guardians, the following are some key points to consider.

1. Think about the Big Picture

If one of the guardians you choose passes away before you update your will, and the other is unable to assume the role on their own, you’ll be in a dilemma. So, creating a backup plan that considers all of the “what-ifs” makes good sense, and gives you control of your children’s well-being even if you’re incapacitated or deceased.

2. Provide Detailed Instructions on How Your Children Should be Raised

Is there a certain school you want your children to attend? What about their nutritional needs and religion? As their biological parent, your wishes should be respected. While you can’t certify that your child will study ballet or learn how to play soccer, you can at least make clear your desires about how and where they’re raised.

3. Select Multiple Guardians

Choosing three or four different guardians safeguards your children’s future, particularly if your first or second choice fails to work out. Carefully selecting a number of backup guardians ensures that your children will be taken care of, no matter what happens.

4. Consider Parenting Skills, Beliefs, Finances, Age, and Living Situation

It might be beneficial if the named guardian is a parent, so they already know how to raise children. Also, their religious or moral beliefs, financial situation, age, and living situation are all key factors to consider when thinking about your children’s future life and well-being. If the prospective guardian meets all of your criteria except the element of financial security, you might consider establishing a trust for your children so their guardian can raise them in comfort. 

Ultimately, you are the only one who can determine the ideal custodian for your children if you’re unable to care for them yourself. To learn about how our experienced Florida family law attorneys can help you choose the right guardian and guide you through the guardianship process, call us toll free at 386-252-3000 or fill out the contact form on our website. 

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